Last year at this time, Greek citizens were being warned to expect harsh times ahead. This year, those hard times are slowly setting in, as people are now having to learn to live with less. We are constantly reminded about the country's high unemployment rate, the (s)low economic growth, the implementation of new taxes, the salary drops and the rising cost of living. It's getting more difficult to put a few euros aside. Instead, we are having to resort to using up our savings and penny pinching with whatever is left. This 'new' form of survival resembles the way Greeks made ends meet in the 1960s (except that in the good old days, there was no euro, only drachma).
We're often told that we can't go back to living as we did in the past: the past is a foreign country; they do things differently there. But Greeks at this very moment are being forced to remember the way of life of their recent past. Thanks to modern medicine, technological advances and the Mediterranean diet, most Greeks have people close to them who were growing up in those days and can remember what that past life entailed - it wasn't that far back in the past - in order to remind us of how we can make the necessary changes that will help us live through difficult times.
I was reminded of this at the first parent-teacher meeting at my children's village school. After speaking to the parents about general issues, the headmaster gave them the floor. A Greek mother (as opposed to being of Albanian or Bulgarian descent - the village school contains a mix of ethnicities) stood up and asked the parents' involvement in a future meeting to discuss what can be done to raise our children without enough money. I wasn't sure if I heard right: did she really say that? Maybe she meant something like how we are going to raise our kids with the austerity measures. I (and no one else) asked her to repeat the statement. She smiled at me compassionately, with a comrade look on her face, and repeated the same words (in Greek, naturally) softly and slowly (she reminded me of Arthur Scargill for some reason), making sure that I understood: How are we going to raise kids without enough money?
I took a liking to this woman. She had an unpainted face, her blonde hair was natural, and her attire consisting of trekking boots, capri trousers and plain t-shirt made her look like a nature lover, a fan of the great outdoors. She almost looked like an artist, someone with a deeper conscience than the average Greek housewife mother, who liked to clean her house, cook family meals and go shopping.
But I didn't like the sound of her missive - not the bit which entailed that I would not have enough money (I already knew that), but the part that implied that I would not be able to raise my children with less money. The statement placed great importance on money, and this offended me, partly because I've grown up with the belief that money doesn't buy happiness, and partly because of some assumptions I make about people like this woman: she sends her children to a village school, therefore she lives in the village, in (probably) a house with no mortgage, surrounded by crop fields and tree orchards, and there is most likely someone (if it isn't actually herself) providing her with eggs, chickens and rabbits. I wouldn't be surprised if she can also procure some fresh milk and cheese (or make it herself), because the area is often crossed by shepherds (some walk their flock, others drive it). According to Maslow's theory, she's already solved most of her basic physiological, safety and love/belonging needs, something most urban Greek dwellers can only hope for as the crisis continues to deepen.
But I had second thoughts about my prejudices when I saw someone joining this woman on the podium. He seconded her idea: we don't have enough money to raise our children (there goes that word again, 'money'). He told us he had two children at the school, and since both he and the woman looked younger than me, I began to feel sorry for them. I suddenly felt sorry for all the people in the room, including myself, because we were all in the same position and we could all do nothing.
Then he revealed his 'perk': he was a retired army officer (read: a Greek state employee who took early retirement - he's younger than me) and he harped on about his pension being too low, how he deserved more because he was posted all over the country (until he had had enough and decided to take early retirement), and he was now living off a low pension; at the time of his retirement, he was supposed to be getting 1,500 euro (at the age of under-45?!), but now with all the cuts, he is only getting 1,000 euro (read: the average Greek salary these days). Admittedly, it's much less than one our neighbours, a retired army general (only just turned 60) who used to receive 3,800 euro as a monthly pension and now gets 'only' 2,200 euros after the cuts. Pray tell me, what on earth did he used to do with so much money? Grandparents like to dote on their grandchildren - the Greek village children are very well dressed.
That's when I felt really really sorry for both these people, and all those others who were about to join them in this cause: not because they don't make much money (most Greeks, including myself, are generally in the same position as them), but because they were still thinking in monetary terms. They wanted money, more money, which they are unable to earn themselves, which is what got Greece into the mess she finds herself today. As for this former military person, I assume that he came to live in the village after retirement, because, like the previous speaker, either he or his wife was from there, hence they owned a freehold home there, hence they have a large enough patch of land near their home to grow a good amount of their food needs, and since he's retired, he's got plenty of time to do all this now, unless he - illegally, because you aren't allowed to do this on a state pension - finds work elsewhere, which would entail working for money 'under the table', hello, what's new?
The school is located in the countryside, surrounded by crop fields and fruit orchards, on the foothills of some of the easier-to-manage pasture land in the region, consisting of rolling walkable hills. Most residents live in their own freehold homes, usually large single- or double-story dwellings with built-in fireplaces, where firewood is readily available (read: free heating in the winter) from the trimmings and coppicing of orchard trees (read: free olive oil and fruit), with enough space on their properties for a large garden (read: more free food), where they can raise chickens and rabbits and forage for wild greens and snails, all things that their ancestors did to survive the last time that Greece found herself in the face of the enemy.
The locals of this area are directly or indirectly involved in agriculture. The school is surrounded by fields: oranges, olives, avocados. There's a horse tied up in one of the fields, while sheep, goats and chickens are often heard and seen. Pick-up trucks ply the empty streets. Beehives are stacked up in open storerooms. Every morning as I drive the children to school, I see someone tending animals; the smell of dung in the damp frosty morning air is not uncommon. A good number of the mothers of my children's classmates do not work, while some are seasonal workers, either in agriculture or tourism. Many rural dwellers live close to their extended families (this is often the main use of a double-story home: grandparents and children live in their own separate homes); among this group of people, responsibilities are shared, meaning that duties like the growing of food, its preparation and cooking often fall on different members of that extended family. If my rural neighbours had a bit more self-esteem and showed a greater acceptance of the facts, they would be on the way to solving even their higher-ranking needs on Maslow's scale, like their Northern European counterparts, who left the desolation of their cold stagnant countries for a bit of sunshine and more quality of life, by moving to Crete: they just know how much better life is down here.
For many years, right up until the economic crisis hit Greece, living in the rural areas has been looked down on by young Greeks. It's usually where they came from, so it could possibly be seen as a reminder of lower living standards. But the countryside is no longer where the poorer Greeks reside. It's the depressed urban centres of Greece that now cannot provide people with the freedom to achieve their basic needs: in the city, you need money to accomplish this, and if you're unemployed, you have no money, and if you have no money, you can't eat, because everything, literally everything, is bought. Since the crisis hit, the countryside has been viewed as the more prosperous place to be, often being associated with modest low-maintenance shelters, plenty of high quality food, a wealth of resources, a place to find comfort among family, and more importantly, a better place to reflect on the problems facing society, with greater space for creativity and spontaneity, two of the highest-ranking needs in Maslow's needs pyramid.
Well, I gave the woman my phone number and email (she asked for it - you can be sure that I really liked here then!), and told her I looked forward to hearing from the group (this was three weeks ago). I thought that if the group did actually get started, I could go along and give them tips that I've picked up from my food experiences: foraging, preserving, freezing, how to use the resources around us to best effect, how to empower ourselves and our children to cope with new technologies and the changing world, and how to educate our kids without that blasted costly frontistirio, which was the fundamental reason why I thought this group was going be started: how can we raise our children with less money?
I didn't expect to heat from anyone; people talk more than they act in this country. So I was quite surprised when I received this email mid-week about a meeting that will take place this Saturday (ie today):
Νo one wants to pay, and no one wants to count their blessings. They think of paying and being thankful as soft options. Εveryone thinks it's someone else's fault, never ever theirs. Greece is bankrupt, but everyone continues to give her money to support
her. Greeks continue not to pay taxes. Those owing money or
squandering public wealth have not been punished. No one's bank accounts have been frozen and no one's property has been confiscated. So why hope for any
change in Greece?
The photos have been taken from facebook and real estate agents' sites of the school area; I so much wanted to show you the picturesque green fields of the main road leading to the school, but the price of petrol (coupled with the tank drivers' strike) doesn't allow it. Working out how much money a person makes in Greece these days is not difficult: just ask them how much they paid in 'Solidarity Tax': that's about 2% of the total income in their household.
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We're often told that we can't go back to living as we did in the past: the past is a foreign country; they do things differently there. But Greeks at this very moment are being forced to remember the way of life of their recent past. Thanks to modern medicine, technological advances and the Mediterranean diet, most Greeks have people close to them who were growing up in those days and can remember what that past life entailed - it wasn't that far back in the past - in order to remind us of how we can make the necessary changes that will help us live through difficult times.
I was reminded of this at the first parent-teacher meeting at my children's village school. After speaking to the parents about general issues, the headmaster gave them the floor. A Greek mother (as opposed to being of Albanian or Bulgarian descent - the village school contains a mix of ethnicities) stood up and asked the parents' involvement in a future meeting to discuss what can be done to raise our children without enough money. I wasn't sure if I heard right: did she really say that? Maybe she meant something like how we are going to raise our kids with the austerity measures. I (and no one else) asked her to repeat the statement. She smiled at me compassionately, with a comrade look on her face, and repeated the same words (in Greek, naturally) softly and slowly (she reminded me of Arthur Scargill for some reason), making sure that I understood: How are we going to raise kids without enough money?
I took a liking to this woman. She had an unpainted face, her blonde hair was natural, and her attire consisting of trekking boots, capri trousers and plain t-shirt made her look like a nature lover, a fan of the great outdoors. She almost looked like an artist, someone with a deeper conscience than the average Greek housewife mother, who liked to clean her house, cook family meals and go shopping.
But I didn't like the sound of her missive - not the bit which entailed that I would not have enough money (I already knew that), but the part that implied that I would not be able to raise my children with less money. The statement placed great importance on money, and this offended me, partly because I've grown up with the belief that money doesn't buy happiness, and partly because of some assumptions I make about people like this woman: she sends her children to a village school, therefore she lives in the village, in (probably) a house with no mortgage, surrounded by crop fields and tree orchards, and there is most likely someone (if it isn't actually herself) providing her with eggs, chickens and rabbits. I wouldn't be surprised if she can also procure some fresh milk and cheese (or make it herself), because the area is often crossed by shepherds (some walk their flock, others drive it). According to Maslow's theory, she's already solved most of her basic physiological, safety and love/belonging needs, something most urban Greek dwellers can only hope for as the crisis continues to deepen.
But I had second thoughts about my prejudices when I saw someone joining this woman on the podium. He seconded her idea: we don't have enough money to raise our children (there goes that word again, 'money'). He told us he had two children at the school, and since both he and the woman looked younger than me, I began to feel sorry for them. I suddenly felt sorry for all the people in the room, including myself, because we were all in the same position and we could all do nothing.
Then he revealed his 'perk': he was a retired army officer (read: a Greek state employee who took early retirement - he's younger than me) and he harped on about his pension being too low, how he deserved more because he was posted all over the country (until he had had enough and decided to take early retirement), and he was now living off a low pension; at the time of his retirement, he was supposed to be getting 1,500 euro (at the age of under-45?!), but now with all the cuts, he is only getting 1,000 euro (read: the average Greek salary these days). Admittedly, it's much less than one our neighbours, a retired army general (only just turned 60) who used to receive 3,800 euro as a monthly pension and now gets 'only' 2,200 euros after the cuts. Pray tell me, what on earth did he used to do with so much money? Grandparents like to dote on their grandchildren - the Greek village children are very well dressed.
That's when I felt really really sorry for both these people, and all those others who were about to join them in this cause: not because they don't make much money (most Greeks, including myself, are generally in the same position as them), but because they were still thinking in monetary terms. They wanted money, more money, which they are unable to earn themselves, which is what got Greece into the mess she finds herself today. As for this former military person, I assume that he came to live in the village after retirement, because, like the previous speaker, either he or his wife was from there, hence they owned a freehold home there, hence they have a large enough patch of land near their home to grow a good amount of their food needs, and since he's retired, he's got plenty of time to do all this now, unless he - illegally, because you aren't allowed to do this on a state pension - finds work elsewhere, which would entail working for money 'under the table', hello, what's new?
The school is located in the countryside, surrounded by crop fields and fruit orchards, on the foothills of some of the easier-to-manage pasture land in the region, consisting of rolling walkable hills. Most residents live in their own freehold homes, usually large single- or double-story dwellings with built-in fireplaces, where firewood is readily available (read: free heating in the winter) from the trimmings and coppicing of orchard trees (read: free olive oil and fruit), with enough space on their properties for a large garden (read: more free food), where they can raise chickens and rabbits and forage for wild greens and snails, all things that their ancestors did to survive the last time that Greece found herself in the face of the enemy.
The locals of this area are directly or indirectly involved in agriculture. The school is surrounded by fields: oranges, olives, avocados. There's a horse tied up in one of the fields, while sheep, goats and chickens are often heard and seen. Pick-up trucks ply the empty streets. Beehives are stacked up in open storerooms. Every morning as I drive the children to school, I see someone tending animals; the smell of dung in the damp frosty morning air is not uncommon. A good number of the mothers of my children's classmates do not work, while some are seasonal workers, either in agriculture or tourism. Many rural dwellers live close to their extended families (this is often the main use of a double-story home: grandparents and children live in their own separate homes); among this group of people, responsibilities are shared, meaning that duties like the growing of food, its preparation and cooking often fall on different members of that extended family. If my rural neighbours had a bit more self-esteem and showed a greater acceptance of the facts, they would be on the way to solving even their higher-ranking needs on Maslow's scale, like their Northern European counterparts, who left the desolation of their cold stagnant countries for a bit of sunshine and more quality of life, by moving to Crete: they just know how much better life is down here.
For many years, right up until the economic crisis hit Greece, living in the rural areas has been looked down on by young Greeks. It's usually where they came from, so it could possibly be seen as a reminder of lower living standards. But the countryside is no longer where the poorer Greeks reside. It's the depressed urban centres of Greece that now cannot provide people with the freedom to achieve their basic needs: in the city, you need money to accomplish this, and if you're unemployed, you have no money, and if you have no money, you can't eat, because everything, literally everything, is bought. Since the crisis hit, the countryside has been viewed as the more prosperous place to be, often being associated with modest low-maintenance shelters, plenty of high quality food, a wealth of resources, a place to find comfort among family, and more importantly, a better place to reflect on the problems facing society, with greater space for creativity and spontaneity, two of the highest-ranking needs in Maslow's needs pyramid.
Well, I gave the woman my phone number and email (she asked for it - you can be sure that I really liked here then!), and told her I looked forward to hearing from the group (this was three weeks ago). I thought that if the group did actually get started, I could go along and give them tips that I've picked up from my food experiences: foraging, preserving, freezing, how to use the resources around us to best effect, how to empower ourselves and our children to cope with new technologies and the changing world, and how to educate our kids without that blasted costly frontistirio, which was the fundamental reason why I thought this group was going be started: how can we raise our children with less money?
I didn't expect to heat from anyone; people talk more than they act in this country. So I was quite surprised when I received this email mid-week about a meeting that will take place this Saturday (ie today):
"Γείτονες, κάτοικοι της ευρύτερης περιοχής του ___________, με συζήτηση μεταξύ μας πήραμε την πρωτοβουλία να καλέσουμε όλους τους πολίτες της περιοχής σε λαϊκή συνέλευση. Ο λόγος που βρισκόμαστε είναι ότι δε μπορούμε να πληρώσουμε άλλο. Δε θέλουμε να θυσιαστούμε όταν η πορεία που ακολουθείται είναι αδιέξοδη για τη χώρα μας. Αρνούμαστε να θυσιάσουμε το μέλλον των παιδιών μας για τους τοκογλύφους της τρόϊκας. Στόχος μας είναι να δράσουμε και να αντιδράσουμε, ώστε κανένας μας να μην πληρώσει τα χαράτσια που μας επιβάλουν, ξεκινώντας από το χαράτσι της ΔΕΗ. Ας μη χάσουμε άλλο χρόνο. Να οργανωθούμε και να αγωνιστούμε όλοι μαζί, γιατί άλλη ελπίδα δε φαίνεται. Μαζικά μπορούμε να τα καταφέρουμε να μην πληρώσει κανείς, να καταργήσουμε το άδικο χαράτσι."
"Neighbors, residents of the ___________ area, following our discussion, we took the initiative to invite all citizens of the region to a people's assembly. The reason is that we can not pay any more. We do not wish to sacrifice ourselves when the path being followed is hopeless for our country. We refuse to sacrifice the future of our children to the troika moneylenders. Our goal is to act and react, so none of us will end up paying the property tax being imposed on us, starting with the DEH property tax. Let's not lose more time. Let's get organised and fight together, because there seems to be no other hope. Together we can manage not to make anyone pay, and remove this unjust property tax."Well, that proves it, doesn't it? The property tax: you only pay it if you have property! Good God, I thought, not only does she sounds like a communist, not only has she basically started YET ANOTHER damn 'Δεν πληρωνω' group, but she believes that she really won't have to pay taxes! The meeting will start in a few hours, but I'm not going. I hope they do manage to remove the property tax - it means I won't have to pay it. But I know that, deep down, they will not be motioning any such thing. Greeks are very predictable: today, the organisers of the meeting are going to tell the participants NOT to pay the tax when the notice is delivered. The whole scenario reminds me of the rubbish collectors in Athens, who went on strike (for more money, what else?) very recently and refused to collect the rubbish for days on end. The government then decided that it had had enough - the work has been given to external partners, and now the rubbish collectors have lost their pay. It's over. Amen.
The photos have been taken from facebook and real estate agents' sites of the school area; I so much wanted to show you the picturesque green fields of the main road leading to the school, but the price of petrol (coupled with the tank drivers' strike) doesn't allow it. Working out how much money a person makes in Greece these days is not difficult: just ask them how much they paid in 'Solidarity Tax': that's about 2% of the total income in their household.
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Wow, is all I can say.
ReplyDeleteBravo, Well-said Maria!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou have of course seen this bit of news from this blog (http://www.thenewathenian.com/2011/10/remittances-vs-declared-income.html):
ReplyDelete"....Roughly 180,000 people remitted 5.4 billion euro overseas, Venizelos said. Of those, 8,667 individuals were responsible for remitting 4.9 billion. From among these, 3,718 declared an income of less than 20,000 euro for the year. He said the government would have remittances data from 2010 and 2011 within days. "
Quite shocking, and no point in blaming the Germans for that!
best wishes, N
The economy is just about the same everywhere but those who are resourceful and have the means will be better off. There has been a movement to homesteading and being self sufficient and even if you live in a condo in the city you can still find a piece of garden if you want to to grow your own in one of the co-ops.
ReplyDelete富不過三代(富不过三代) (fu bu guo san dai)
ReplyDeleteLiterally: Wealth does not pass three generations.
Meaning: It's rare that the wealth of a family can last for three generations (the 2nd may see the value of hard work, but the 3rd forgets it).
Explanation: In business, the first generation works extremely hard, so that the second generation reaps the benefits. By the time the third generation arrives, the wealth is squandered.
chinese proverb - wikipedia
Love the proverb. How very true.
ReplyDeleteI hate all this whining from retired and current public servants. They used to do it even when they were earning a good deal of 4K per month per couple. Never believe the pension cuts of retired public servants, they usually refer to their main pension only not the state pension fund they are in (still from public money). They still get more than a working person.
You won't find common sense amongst Greek people. Not in the way you grew up and learned how to think. It is hard to communicate. The property tax is the only fair tax so far because it catches all those who escape paying taxes and invest in properties instead, hence all the strong resistance. To be fair though it should have excluded the house we live in and take into account only holiday homes and investment properties.
For the rubbish collectors in the two biggest municipalities of Greece I can only say that most of them were hired in a long succession of same party mayors that ruled these municipalities as if they were their kingdoms and were surrounded by a court that now is paying back what they owe to their party.
Everybody is appalled by the paycuts in the public sector but noone has reacted with so little social awareness.
I could not have agreed more with you about this. I'm 30 years old, born and raised in Greece (in the province of Epirus, to be exact) and 5 years ago I left Greece for the Netherlands, initially to follow a Master's study, but then I decided I wanted to stay in NL indefinitely. Why? Because when I lived in Greece, I felt suffocated by a society who pushes you to not break the mold, to be a quiet little sheep and to accept no accountability whatsoever for what you did (or didn't do) The inevitable crisis saddens me, not only because of the lowering living standards, but because I still see the mentality that brought Greece to its knees still alive and kicking. People complain, people refuse to accept their mistakes, people still think that cheating your way through life is the only way to go. I really hoped that the crisis would be a chance for introspection, self-reflection and recognition of things that were destructive, as well as a new determination to do things right this time. I don't see this unfortunately, and when I talk about it, I get the "you don't live here anymore (or "you chose the easy way out'') so you don't know how bad we have it!" It's all the EU's fault, Germany's fault, the banks' fault, anybody but themselves. And yet I still don't have the courage to tell them that when I lived here, I felt like a foreigner who can't fit in and that Greece had already banished me even before I ultimately left.
ReplyDeletewhat a shame we have to lose people like you, sofia - but who would one expect to leave this country? not those καλοβολεμενους - they have nothing to lose
ReplyDeleteeven when you find the courage to tell those people what you think, their minds are not in the position to understand what you are telling them, as i often find in my case; dont waste your breath!
(i hope you have the courage to come bakc and spend a summer holiday here - especially in your beautiful epirus)
Don't get me wrong; a lot of the things I now see and shake my head, when I still lived in Greece, I was greatly annoyed yet still accepted them with a resigned "what can we do eh? - τί να κάνουμε;" But still, I really had the feeling that if I stayed in Greece and didn't try my hand at living abroad, then something important inside me would suffocate and die, and that prospect scared the living daylights out of me. When I finally moved abroad, I saw just how different things were - and how they could definitely be changed and/or improved in Greece. Everything, from responsible citizen behavior, to recycling, to how you treat animals, and anyone who doesn't fit society's mold (e.g. atheists, gays/lesbians, immigrants etc.) was done in a way that I personally found much more appealing and correct. Living in the Netherlands has made me more accountable as a person - in the past, when I made I mistake, I would try to find excuses for myself, but now, I just realize that I simply have to try harder to keep my promises and commitments, and most importantly, I accept and listen to criticism instead of flying into a rage of "who are you to judge me, you've done a,b,c yourself!" - the deflecting way that so many Greeks seem to use in order to wipe away any and all criticism about their responsibility and they role they played in any given situation. I still see that when I talk to friends and relatives of all ages, and it disappoints me in a way that I can't describe. What I try to do is give the outsider's perspective, by e.g. explaining just why the Dutch taxpayers are less than enthused by the prospect of numerous budget cuts enforced by their government, while they still lend us billions (it's like most Greeks think that the Europeans should just bail us out after we basically lied our way into the euro, dear Lord...)
ReplyDeleteAs for the people that have given me the "you chose the easy way out talk", I vividly remember one of them who has always voted for PASOK, and so has her entire family ever since 1981, so there it was really a case of me just wasting my breath. Said person had always remarked that I am overly appreciative of those 'Northerners' and putting down Greeks (with plenty of examples as to why Greece and Greece are just soooo much better than those boring, lifeless and immoral Northern Europeans) so yeah...I was not surprised when she attacked me like that.
I do come back to Greece often, and I spend my time in Epirus, which is indeed beautiful with its combinations of rugged mountains and crystal blue Ionian waters - thank you for saying that! Wish I could visit Crete again - the last time I was there I was 5 years old, so my memory hasn't really registered much of it!
it's always so good to hear someone agreeing with me - there are not many greeks out there who would say what you are saying, and if they dare to do so, then people try to find fault with them
ReplyDeleteit's heartening to know that greeks can see their 'wrong' ways once they are given a chance to experience another way of doing the same things: all they need is a chance to leave their country and live elsewhere for a year or two
(ps; i will be in holland in april next year - it's one european country i never managed to visit during my early trips round europe; i'll be staying in alkmaar!)
There are more Greeks that agree with what we're saying - I've been following the Greek blogosphere for 4,5 years now, and I am pleased to see that there are like-minded Greeks out there who share the same views and worries (I have noticed though that a significant part of them has either lived abroad in the past or still lives there - not that there haven't been Greeks who spent their entire time abroad criticizing their host country and living for the time when they'd finally go back to their Ελλαδάρα) I think it's mostly what you say, that once you get out of Greece and see a different way of life, your eyes open up to the various different possibilities and ways of getting things done. No country is perfect of course and I do have certain things that I'm not that crazy about here in NL - for example, the way some Dutch people are so direct and even downright harsh in criticizing others, yet if someone attempts to criticize them, they can have an almost rabid reaction(they're not that dissimilar from Greeks when it comes to that), the long waiting lists in hospitals and the complete lack of private practice doctors here, the huge lack of spontaneity in your social life which includes meticulous planning for visiting friends (taking out your agendas and deciding that you only have time for a cup of coffee after 1-1,5 month)- but I think the issue is that when you bring up the possibility of a mentality change to Greeks, they take huge issue with what they perceive as an attempt to completely Dutchify/Germanise/Americanize Greece and Greeks ("you want us to become emotionless and harsh Northern Europeans?!"), when all you propose is that Greece adopts some of the positive measures/attitudes of a foreign country, while keeping and upholding its own positive Greek elements. I try my best to not come across as confrontational when I propose certain changes, but even that doesn't help sometime, as if for them it's incompatible to be a fun-loving Greek and yet always ask for receipts wherever you go, for example ("αλλάζει μωρέ η Ελλάδα;") That defeatist attitude pisses me off and I mention that if we all thought that things are as they are and no change can ever come, then women would still not be able to work and vote, African Americans would still ride in the back of buses and Greeks would still be under Ottoman rule.
ReplyDeleteGreat that you're coming to the Netherlands! How long will you be staying? I haven't been to Alkmaar yet, but I've heard it's a beautiful city with countless historical monuments and museums,(not to mention the famous cheese market!) so you'll have plenty of sight-seeing to do. If you have some extra time, I'd recommend visiting the centre of Amsterdam with its fantastic museums (including the Van Gogh Museum and Anne Frank's House), the Dutch beaches at the North Sea and maybe pay a visit to the little village of Volendam where you can see people wearing traditional Dutch garb (truth be told, it's very tourist-oriented, but could still be fun!) Whatever you do, don't forget to take your umbrella with you!
the umbrella - i must remember to pack it!
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